“She Packed Her Bags and Left… Here’s What Really Happened”

[00:00:00] Speaker A: Sam, I don't respect you. I'm making up stuff. Yeah. So I want to understand. I want to understand how it is that you can create problems and then get mad about the effects they have on me. Twist it and play victim. There's no accountability in it. If it's deception. They ain't trying to be a condomin. They're trying to take it to their grade. So they got an objective, they got an agenda. You know what I'm saying? They doing them. You know what I mean? That's all it is. But to go to the extreme and to the extent of playing victim to your actions or to the. To the damaging destructive impacts your actions have on someone, mentally or emotionally. I mean, come on. It only. It don't. They don't seem like it's even plausible. I mean, on some real shit, it only seems like it's plausible. Like some. You gotta be something gotta be loose. Something gotta be twisted in your mind to think what you're doing is okay and acceptable and to treat somebody like that, that don't treat you in that manner. I mean, I feel like everybody do some form of respect. The dog do some form of respect, you know what I'm saying? And it ain't. And if you got somebody that's doing right by you, eat in a great extent, I ain't gonna say in the complete extent, I ain't gonna say everybody 100. Everybody got their flaws in some form or fashion, but they doing for the most part. I'm talking about real good by you, real decent by you. And you handling them in that manner, that's despicable, man. That's. I mean, that's. I'm talking about. That's Lolo. Yeah. I don't even understand really see how. How that look, you know what I mean? But to pretend to fake with a mother. I'm talking about. And know you doing a wrong and you lying and manipulating, just handling in their face, and you just handling them right in their face. You got the nerve to just handle them in their face. I mean, you got a real low level of respect for that person. It's something that you trying to. You trying to hurt that person, but you ain't trying to hurt that person. You want to stab him with an invisible knife. [00:03:14] Speaker B: Do you know what they say? Hurt people, hurt people. [00:03:17] Speaker A: That's a good one, boy. That's good people. [00:03:20] Speaker B: You know what I'm saying? [00:03:20] Speaker A: That's a good one. [00:03:21] Speaker B: And I think a lot of issues arise in situations like that when people who aren't healed jump into relationships or situationships and they really not ready for them. They want the. [00:03:34] Speaker A: The. [00:03:35] Speaker B: The glitz and glamor, the perks, so to say, when it comes to a relationship, but a lot of people not ready for that. So you get in these situationships and then you get a lot of that deceit, lying, and you know what I'm saying, Manipulation back and forth. Because none of it's genuine. I'm saying. But. And that, that, that ain't to say that everybody that, you know, everybody is that way, but you know, just specifically those types of people that get in those situationships. And that goes for, like he said, that goes for men and women. Cause on the flip side of that, I done seen, you know, I done seen women handle men and men handle women that same way. You know, it may be an issue like, hey, oh, shit, time to pay them bills. You know what I'm saying? He get mad about something that ain't why it's so hot in this house or why the house ain't clean up. You know what I'm saying? I don't even want to pay no bills, for real. But, oh, you ain't got it. You know, he didn't miss out the money. Hey, man, I ain't got it. So I'm about to go in and start arguing, hey, well, I need to get my coffee. So I need, you know what I'm saying, You just flip out and just. It go left, you know what I'm saying? So it's like, you know, it's head scratching, man. But yeah, I done seen both sides of that, man. [00:04:51] Speaker A: And I mean, I know, me personally, I can speak from personal experience. I know if I wanted to do something, I would just get arrogant with it. I just be like, man, that why you stressing me about something? I mean, like, why you stressing me about it? I make it more. I wouldn't kind of veer away from it. I'd be like, yeah, I'm doing it. Yeah. Why you making such a big. I would get kind of arrogant with it. You know what I mean? So. Oh, it must be something or you must be up to something. Like, I mean, like, try to roll it back instead of just avoid it. I wouldn't necessarily just avoid the situation and lie about it. You know, I would just act like I got an attitude. Cause you pressing me about it. Yeah. You know what I mean? [00:05:37] Speaker B: Toxic. [00:05:38] Speaker A: Yeah, toxic. Is. [00:05:44] Speaker B: Everybody, Everybody, everybody guilty of that, though? [00:05:46] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:05:46] Speaker B: And if you say different, you're a liar. [00:05:50] Speaker A: And then be real with You. For me to say just be. I know. Me personally. Just for me to. Like, if you question me about something and I'll be like, either. That ain't none of your business. Yeah, that gonna be one of my. That ain't none of your business. You know what I'm saying? Like, we ain't there. Like, why are you asking me that? Why you question me about it? Business. I wouldn't question you about that. I wouldn't ask you about none of that. That ain't none of my business. You know what I mean? So. But if a motherfucker just keep being persistent, like you just ain't trying to hear it and you on some delusional. Like, you just. Yeah. Like I'm telling you, we ain't together. I'm telling you we ain't all this. I'm telling you whatever I'm talking about. And you just keep with it. You know what I'm saying? I feel like you ain't entitled to know my business. Why are you questioning me? [00:06:29] Speaker B: But that may be triggering for women too, though. You feel me? [00:06:35] Speaker A: I don't know. [00:06:35] Speaker B: You know, And I think it's a thin. It's a thin line between that too, though, bro. [00:06:39] Speaker A: Well, I get mad, but then you gonna get mad at me and play victim. But I'm telling you what it is. I'm telling you straight up. This is what it is, all right? This is what it ain't. I mean, like, ain't no red, green, gray lines. This is exactly what it is. Black and white. If you make anything more out of it, you lying to yourself. You. L. And they still do it. And then get mad with you when. Okay. I don't want no company tonight. Hey, I'm finna go over here and do this and do that. Or I mean, like, I need my space now. It's a problem. [00:07:11] Speaker B: Guess what? Okay. And me and this friend of mine had this conversation. Shit. Couple months ago, and that was my. You know what I'm saying? I was saying, like, you know, like. Well, I wonder how. How can you call me a manipulator? If I tell you what it is, what it ain't, and you take it and try to make it be what you want it to be, okay? And this is exactly what I got from that. She was like. Well, you know, like, if you tell a woman that. But still, you know, you. How can I say it if you still doing for them. [00:07:46] Speaker A: What do you mean? Actions? Hold up. [00:07:48] Speaker B: Hold tight. Hold that. Hold that thought. [00:07:50] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. [00:07:52] Speaker B: If you're taking care of them? Are you taking them places, doing something with them, you know, you know what I'm saying? And y' all have an amazing intercourse, you know what I'm saying? It's like that get misconstrued. So that's where the delusion comes in. It's not really delusion because I'm telling you what it is and what it ain't. But it's kind of misleading because I'm treating you a certain type of way but expecting you to act another way. You see what I'm saying? And it's like, it's those feelings and emotions. Like, you know, feelings and emotions in reality, it's a thin line between them two. Okay? You know what I'm saying? [00:08:25] Speaker A: But how does that make it toxic? Isn't that hold up? Well, what's the point? Listen, what's the point? But think about this though, all right? So what's the point of us dealing with one another if not to have a good time, okay. If not just to enjoy the moment, right? And not for us to. You know what I mean? Like me, you ain't gonna go out to dinner and go catch a movie. I'm talking about sit back so find, listen music. I'm not going to do that with you understand? But if I'm with a female and I'm with a woman, okay, that's as a man, that's what I do with a woman, right? You know what I'm saying? That's what I do with a woman, you know, so. So what I'm gonna do with a woman's gonna be different from what I do with my homeboys and my man. Like, like so. But this woman don't got to be my wife. She don't got to be a girlfriend. She don't got to be a 10 year confidant. She don't got to be, you know what I'm saying? Somebody I grew up with. She could be somebody. Okay, I just met and I want to date. I want to get to know. So I mean, okay, yeah, okay, if we get to the. After we get to the getting. Yeah, I'm gonna go, I'm gonna go. [00:09:23] Speaker C: Hear me? [00:09:23] Speaker A: I ain't gonna sit there. But we already know what it is. [00:09:29] Speaker B: But when you cross that line from having a platonic relationship with somebody, you know what I'm saying, to it being a physical relationship with somebody. [00:09:38] Speaker A: So y' all want to see it? We all grown adults in here, we want to sit here and establish the fact that, that if we have physical contact with an Individual. That means now we have to be entertaining Soul ties in a ingrained relationship. [00:09:52] Speaker B: It depends on the nature. Nature of that, Right? [00:09:55] Speaker A: So you're telling me I can't go to the movie. I can't like kicking it with you? Yeah. Because you might like to smoke. You might roll good. I don't like to roll. Like, you don't talk about. You might be somebody. Your vibe just might be like that. Like, you know what I mean? And you might be one of the females that will never ask me for nothing. You know what I'm saying? Like, it just. It just. We cool. I like your company. You know what I mean? And I tell my. You keep it dang. Cause if you touch me, I'm gonna fuck you. I'm talking about, like, how you gonna ask me to keep it dang. You ask me to keep it dang. But then you gonna be looking at me like, mm. What you mean, mm? You know what I'm saying? I ain't nobody, man. [00:10:31] Speaker C: But over the boundaries, then you gotta listen. [00:10:35] Speaker A: I feel like respect is a boundary. Respect. [00:10:38] Speaker B: Get on the mic, please. [00:10:40] Speaker A: Thank you. But y' all gotta come to the mic because it go. [00:10:42] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Come to it. [00:10:43] Speaker A: Cut up on that. [00:10:44] Speaker B: Hey, Eric. [00:10:45] Speaker A: Yeah. They can't hear you on the live. They want to hear y' all on the live. You finna turn it on? He finna turn it off or you turned it off? Sorry. Speak in it. Bring it to one. Get it right. Come a little bit over this way. Come this way. Come this way. [00:11:30] Speaker C: Right here. [00:11:31] Speaker A: Good? [00:11:35] Speaker C: Oh, I'm good. Okay. [00:11:37] Speaker A: All right. So, yeah, so this my thing, right? Y' all saying keep it day. But if we got a vibe and we really kicking in, everything cool, why does the sex. Why does sex gotta be the act that breaks the boundaries? Why can't the boundaries be somewhere? And it becomes an emotional or mental conversation where we have to establish because we see where our desires are. I see, like, I think about you. I desire being in your company. I desire being around you. I feel uncomfortable when you're not around. I'm worried you know where you are. How you doing today, right? I'm concerned. I care. You start to matter to me, right? That's when I think then a conversation. That's what I think the conversation can have. I'm talking about. That's. That's the boundary that you're crossing. You know what I'm saying? That we need an understanding now. You know what I mean? Because if I see you with somebody, I'm talking. I Don't know how I'm gonna react. You know what I'm saying? We need to have that conversation. But sex ain't gonna make that for me. [00:12:44] Speaker C: But that's with females. I can speak for females. For me. Cause I'm a female. Sex is like a. It's like a. It's like a soul tie. It's like an energy. So when you give that person. [00:12:54] Speaker A: We got a female, do not agree. [00:12:56] Speaker C: Well, that's. That's this. That's that female. [00:12:57] Speaker D: This is me. [00:12:58] Speaker C: When you give a person a female sex, it's like a different level to that relationship. You can't set boundaries no more. You already gave. [00:13:07] Speaker A: You know what it is for most men, right? Right. But you know what it is for most men? You know, it is for most men, sex the sexiest. For most. Most men, I'm just. For most men, you know, I ain't met, but maybe two men in my lifetime may be different from my opinion than what I'm from this. And I don't know if we're gonna be honest today, but for most men, it's like gonna shoot basketball. It's like going and shooting a game of basketball. [00:13:34] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:13:37] Speaker A: We don't put all that into it. Like I say, when it gets to a point where you matter to me and I miss you, it's how you make me feel, right? I'm doing my day unless I like you. Have you contributed my peace, my pleasure, you know what I'm saying? [00:13:49] Speaker C: But if you just put that on the ground, why she should step that boundary? What you mean by stepping boundary if she respecting all that, what you saying? [00:13:57] Speaker A: No, what I'm saying is like, exactly what I'm saying. Like, when it comes to a point where she actually matters to me, Right. It's not gonna be defined by sex. It's gonna be defined by how she makes me feel mentally and ultimately and spiritually and emotionally. [00:14:08] Speaker C: Right. [00:14:09] Speaker A: None of that impacts. None of that impacts on me with sex. Now when we get to that point, yeah. Sex becomes a more proprietary thing because it means more to me. It connects more. It gets up to my. It just. It's a different feeling. [00:14:23] Speaker C: Right. [00:14:23] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? But that's making love. But sex is just like shooting basketball, man, for most guys. Man, for most guys, it just ain't. Ain't nothing in it, but. But females, understandably. A lot of females. We ain't gonna say just some, but a lot of females make that a. Oh, that's my main man now. Because we. We having sex or, you know, I mean, he mine. Now. If you become proprietary once sex becomes a factor, I'm saying it's almost. I'm talking about, oh no, if the. [00:14:56] Speaker C: Leak is good, it's mine. [00:14:57] Speaker B: No, see, that's a problem. Negative. [00:14:59] Speaker A: Listen, let me tell you something. Let me tell you. When I hear, say, oh, ain't no way in hell you going, we going to be doing all this and you just going to call me when you want them. Oh, guess what I ain't going to do. Call no mother. You know what I'm saying? I'm talking about like just, I'm just not. I'm talking about that, that. Oh, where you going? Oh no, we ain't doing that. We ain't doing that. We not there yet. You see what I'm saying? We not there yet. I don't talking about, you know, so I think that for me is, I'm talking about like, that's for me is a big red flag, you know what I mean? When sex becomes a main factor, you know what I mean? Because I think it's so much more between a male and female dynamic that's more important than sex. And, and if it's a focus, if sex is a focus or sex is a perimeter, or if it's a boundary or if it's set up there on the shelf as something to acknowledge, you know what I'm saying, then, you know, that's, for me, that's personally concerning. I mean, because to me, it ain't that important. It's really not, you know? You know, and I feel like God created me to enjoy every pleasure on this earth, you know what I mean? I supposed to live my life to the absolute maximum. That's why God created me. God created me in his own likeness and greatness and everything. And I'm pretty sure he ain't telling himself no, you know what I'm saying? So why should I be telling myself? No, I'm just saying. I'm just saying. I'm just saying. Didn't the Bible not say he created you in his own like, thank you. So do. Who do you think God telling himself? [00:16:42] Speaker B: No, but I'm pretty sure God ain't neither though. [00:16:46] Speaker A: So why am I gonna tell myself, no, he ain't lusting one more time. I don't have to lust. Cause I feel like, I feel like he don't gotta lust. Cause he create what he want. Same way I don't have to lust over nothing. Cause I'm gonna create what I want. My energy and my will gonna Put forth what I desire and if I want it, it's gonna come forward, you know what I mean? That's just what I believe, you know what I mean? And that's what I act on, you know, who's meant for me is gonna be with me. What's gonna vibe with me is gonna vibe with me. If it don't, if it don't fit, you must have quit. [00:17:16] Speaker B: Hey, O.J. [00:17:19] Speaker A: But, but I mean, just, I mean, just think about it, man. Like, honestly, I love to say this, and I say this a lot of times. I know you don't heard me say this many times. I feel like we are puzzles. Each and, each and every individual is a puzzle. No puzzle's the same. There's not one puzzle the same. You go to the store, you buy a puzzle, it could be the fame picture on 10 boxes, but each one of them dang on puzzles different. Every. You cannot take one piece out of one puzzle and put it in another puzzle. You can't do it. You know, puzzles are complicated and what fits in them, fits in them. You can get the little childish little ones with the big pieces or you can get the puzzles with the little tiny rub pieces and it'll take you probably the rest of your life to put together. You know what I mean? But we are puzzles, man. What fits, fits. What don't, don't. And I think a lot of part of our problem is we will pretend and fake and try our damnedest to be somebody in something that we're not to fit in somebody else puzzle. And I'm talking about, so, I'm talking about so being genuine, being genuine and being truly who you say you are and who you believe you are is what gives you value. Don't talk about cuz the universe going to vibe with you. God going to bless you with all the other pieces of your puzzle. Cuz that's what you stay sitting on, that's what you focused on. You ain't accepting nothing. You ain't, you know, just dealing with something because that's what you could deal with. You're doing right by everything and everybody you possibly can in your life. And you accepting accountability and you growing and learning through all your mistakes, man. I think, I'm talking about, so I think that's, I think that's fabulous when you can experience that with a woman and you got a woman bringing something like that to the table, you know, accountability and growth. See, I'm talking about a lot of women don't got none of that accountability. You gotta catch that one thing I don't like. Well, you gotta catch y' all red handed. [00:19:36] Speaker B: That's a whole nother topic. [00:19:37] Speaker A: Y' all can't just come tell. Why you can't just come telling me? Hey, man, listen, I up, hey, I did this. Hey, but I want to tell you for somebody else tell you, but I've. [00:19:44] Speaker B: Been like that for a long time too. And hey, you gotta prove it. [00:19:48] Speaker A: I ain't did it. [00:19:49] Speaker B: I don't know what you talking about. That wasn't me. I've been at it for a long time. It took me just like, I guess really not caring to just be like, you know what? Yeah, I did it. So what? Leave me alone. You know what I'm saying? [00:20:02] Speaker A: I just grew to a point. I'm gonna tell you. And I really honestly. And I done got to, I done evolved to another point. I'm not gonna put my position, myself in a position where I even gotta even lie about or even avoid telling. You are speaking on what it is I do. I mean, that's just. I am who I am, you know me, I am what I say. I don't do what I do. And if what I do or how I go about doing what I do disturb you, then that means I don't fit in your puzzle. I'm not trying to force myself to fit in your puzzle, but I'm putting it on the table so you can evaluate whether or not you want to eat off this plate or not. [00:20:43] Speaker C: Wait, do you put on a table, like up front, everything like up front? [00:20:47] Speaker A: Yeah. I strive my best to be as transparent as earthly possible without being. Without being. Without being. What's the word I'm looking for? Without being offensive because I don't want to offend the people that are in my life. That's what I mean. [00:21:03] Speaker C: There we go. [00:21:04] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? And I have learned that accessibility also as. As a man. No, accessibility also as a man gives me greater value too. So eliminating who got access to me, unlimited, who can gain my attention, you know, so you, you just can't slide up in my inbox, you know, I ain't him, you know, so we had a point of time, though. At a point of time now at a point of time. But I done came a long way. I came a long way. Wow. It, it's funny because what I used to tell you, I used to say, you know, it be the females you want that won't deal with you because you dealt with the lesser females before you got to them. They will. You Go to Sutra Shana at one, and you like, oh, I've been wanting her for a long time. She's like, okay, no, no. You don't deal with dun, dun, dun. I don't want to be with nobody. They done nothing. And as a man, we the same way. Yeah. Is this certain female boy, right? You done that with him? [00:22:16] Speaker B: Oh, man, never. Never. [00:22:19] Speaker A: I'm good. I'm good, y'. All. Never. [00:22:21] Speaker B: I don't care how many years ago. [00:22:22] Speaker A: It was, but I don't care how bad you look. Yeah, I don't care how bad you look. I don't care how good you got it going on. Oh, you done dealt with him. [00:22:28] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:22:28] Speaker A: Nah, I'm good. I'm good. So I know it goes both ways. So now that I done got to where I'm at with it, man, hell no. Anybody ain't going to put their name on me. They going. I'm talking about. I ain't doing. They going have to lie. They ain't going. They going to have to lie, and I'm going to tell the truth. So. [00:22:47] Speaker B: Yeah, y' all want to reach back for questions, comments. [00:22:51] Speaker A: Oh, man, we ain't even looking at social media. You looking at social media to see what's being said on. Barely. [00:22:58] Speaker B: Barely. [00:22:59] Speaker A: But we. Well, clearly we done got way off topic. Yeah, Way, way off topic, cuz. Still, Gigi don't want to take no accountability for what she did today, you know? I mean, what did you do? You didn't play victim today, or was it yesterday? Okay, yeah. You want to. [00:23:24] Speaker B: Talking to Mike. [00:23:25] Speaker A: What about you? [00:23:26] Speaker C: Me? [00:23:26] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:23:27] Speaker C: You play Venom today? [00:23:30] Speaker A: Yeah. You get it when last time you got an attitude with your boyfriend. [00:23:37] Speaker C: Like, two weeks ago. [00:23:38] Speaker A: What was it about? If you don't mind me asking? If you mind. Don't. [00:23:44] Speaker C: I mean, it was basically communication. [00:23:48] Speaker A: Talking to the microphone, talking to the mic. [00:23:51] Speaker C: It was communication. I felt like our communication wasn't there. Like, I feel like he didn't understand where I was coming from, but he wanted me to understand where he was coming from. You see what I'm saying? So that's why. That's why we got an argument. Because normally our communication skills were good. He understand. I understand. But at that time, he didn't. [00:24:11] Speaker A: Yeah. So how'd you deal with that? [00:24:16] Speaker C: I paid my. And I left. She definitely did. [00:24:21] Speaker A: I mean. All right, so I'm being honest. [00:24:24] Speaker C: So. [00:24:24] Speaker A: So let me ask you a question. Do. Do you believe that was a productive choice? [00:24:29] Speaker C: It wasn't. It was just like a. It was a moment thing. It was Like a emotion and sound like the victim. If you want to put it that way. [00:24:38] Speaker A: So what was. Let's be real, let's be honest. Upon making that choice and upon acting pretty certain, a window opened for you, and you considered, hold up. What am I doing? Okay. What is he going to do? So you clearly felt like he was not going to leave you that while you left. So your purpose for leaving was what? [00:25:11] Speaker C: Standing ground. [00:25:13] Speaker A: Standing ground. Mm. Cause he was having trouble communicating. What kind of ground was that to try to stand on? Enforce. [00:25:22] Speaker C: I just feel like if he. We been understanding each other. Why you ain't understanding me with this little small thing? It's like. It's a little small thing. So why. It's like. [00:25:29] Speaker A: But you made it major enough for you to leave. So it wasn't. [00:25:32] Speaker C: I' ma always make it major because my feelings invalid, just like yours. So if I feel like my feelings is not being accountable for the table put on the table. If you can't understand that as a. If we in a relationship, then why we should be in a relationship, if you can't do that? [00:25:48] Speaker A: So you feel like leaving was not a form of bullying? [00:25:52] Speaker C: No, that's my peace. [00:25:54] Speaker D: You leaving, maybe. [00:25:55] Speaker A: So promote peace. Could have also been you making the choice to decide. I. Yeah. [00:26:04] Speaker C: Run away. I can say that. I run away with my problems. [00:26:06] Speaker A: I'm talking about. It's not that I'm saying you're. You could have made the choice. You had options, and you could have made the choice to say, hold up. What can I do to aid him in communicating with me better or what can I do to prevent this situation from. Or becoming a normal situation or a repeat situation? What can I do to promote a peaceful understanding so we can approach this at a different time? [00:26:37] Speaker C: We tried. I tried that. I tried that. But then it leads to. With mans getting in their feelings, they doing all that yelling and barking and cussing and telling you all types of shit that's not even supposed to be in the conversation. Then it's like more piled up, you. [00:26:52] Speaker A: Know, you're a woman, you know, you got so much control over a man. [00:26:54] Speaker C: I do, right? I do. [00:26:56] Speaker A: But guess what? You can't guess what. You could never be the man at what? Being tough. [00:27:02] Speaker C: That's. [00:27:03] Speaker A: I'm telling you, man. Like, it's not. [00:27:04] Speaker C: I don't think so. [00:27:06] Speaker A: Listen, it's not even necessary. I don't never want my woman to argue with me, man. I tell my man, like, listen, you right, baby. You're right. Whatever you believe, whatever you think you Right? I mean. Cause if you really. If you really wanted your way with me, if you really wanted to control things with me, you would just. You would just listen and give me guidance. [00:27:27] Speaker C: So you want me to listen and not say nothing? [00:27:30] Speaker A: No, I said listen and give me guidance. [00:27:31] Speaker C: Oh, okay, okay, okay. [00:27:33] Speaker A: See, it's power in being submissive. There's power in letting your man be a man and then being man enough and confident enough to come to you for guidance. Confident enough to be able to lean and say, baby, take a moment and think about that. There's power in that, man. You know what I mean? It's power in. He's screaming, but you just. He's screaming, he hollering, he mad. And you just walk up, you just put your arms around his waist and just put your head on his chest, man, shh. Man, that. We ain't gonna get real short. I mean, like, he'll be mad, bro. But you up to my man. Like, y' all women got so much power, man. You shut them nigga up, man, without even saying nothing. It ain't even gotta be sexual dead ass. Like, you don't even gotta fuss with him. And guess what? He gonna come to you first. I don't care what. I don't care who else. I don't care. I don't care who else around. He gonna come to you first. Yeah, that was. [00:28:44] Speaker B: That was the stupidest thing I ever heard. Yeah, she said, yeah, you get mad and pack your stuff and leave because he don't understand you. And that's. That's you standing on business as you leaving. [00:28:59] Speaker A: You causing more damage than you is anything. Leave. [00:29:03] Speaker B: Leave and don't come back. [00:29:04] Speaker A: Listen, cuz. That's what you do. Listen. Now he know you gonna leave him. Now he know you gonna leave him. And the first thing I don't think with. Damn, if she don't respect me enough to stay and fight through something and she just want to leave, then. You know what I mean? You gotta be thinking, she got options. [00:29:18] Speaker B: You leave, I'mma leave, too. You ain't gonna like where I go. [00:29:23] Speaker A: Not an option. She treat me like an option. She can walk up out of here and leave and don't be worried if I call her tomorrow. Here you a. She got to have somebody else. She got to have somebody else. Somebody got him feeling bad and bold. She can walk up out of here. She can walk up out here, leave me. She walk out of here, leave me. Okay. Okay. See you in the morning. [00:29:46] Speaker B: Got something. Got something you want to say, young lady? Okay. [00:29:50] Speaker C: Well, y. [00:29:50] Speaker D: Go ahead cuz they be they. [00:29:54] Speaker A: For one. [00:29:55] Speaker D: And it's just being 100 honest talk. [00:29:58] Speaker A: Straight in the mic, please. [00:29:59] Speaker D: It's just being 100 honest with you. I've been in relationships and stuff like that and I've learned from talk up talk. I've learned from every relationship that I've ever been in. And I'm strong in the Bible, right? In the Bible there's scriptures and store a story that tells you how the woman is supposed to be the man's backbone. So if a man goes out here and he works and say it fails, the woman is supposed to go out there and do what she need to do to keep it standing because he can't do it right now. And then once while she's keeping it standing, helping it stay standing, that gives him an opportunity to go back out there and continue to be the king and the man that he's supposed to be for his household. [00:30:49] Speaker A: Right? [00:30:50] Speaker D: Me, I'm a female. I'm not arguing with no guy. I'm not gonna do it. [00:30:56] Speaker E: It ain't. [00:30:57] Speaker D: I done been through that, done that. It's not in me. This is what I do because I vibe off. I vibe off energies. So I'm. As soon as I see you, you come around me. I can already feel them something ain't right or you upset. So what I do is I be like, hey, go ahead, take you some time. Go calm down. We can come back and we can talk about it later. I don't argue. My energy can't stand arguing. It can't even take it in. One thing I do believe in is coming back to have a reasonable. A reasonable conversation together. And what I always do is I allow my man to speak first and I listen. And when he's finished, I speak. Because that's the only way we're gonna be able to listen to each other and understand where we're coming from. [00:32:00] Speaker A: Okay, you got it together, twin. I said you clearly got it together. Let. Let T.R. over what she was going to say. [00:32:07] Speaker D: But yeah, you walk. [00:32:08] Speaker A: I love it that you got it together. [00:32:09] Speaker D: But look, you packing your stuff and walking away, that makes you look like you're still a child. Cuz an adult. [00:32:16] Speaker A: A real. [00:32:18] Speaker D: Okay, it doesn't matter. But you're still an adult because you 21. You're 20. [00:32:23] Speaker B: What? [00:32:23] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah, I just turned. [00:32:25] Speaker D: But as an adult. [00:32:26] Speaker A: Okay, okay, let's give it to. [00:32:28] Speaker C: Give it to. [00:32:34] Speaker E: I just simply wanted to touch on the topic about. You said he wouldn't communicate so you left. So just like they said that is not the answer to any. That's not the solution to any problem. If anything, you should communicate with him. Like, listen, I'm not understanding what you're saying. We're gonna have to figure this out because leaving isn't an option on no day, okay? Because if you have options, then stay gone when you leave. Don't spin the block. [00:33:05] Speaker B: Once you grab your stuff and leave my house, there ain't no spinning the block. [00:33:08] Speaker A: A lot of men like that. For real? For real. Everybody different, ain't it? Everybody different. Once you give away something you can't, you can't, can't. You can't demand it back. Leaving is giving it away. [00:33:28] Speaker B: And that's a whole another argument. [00:33:30] Speaker A: You know what my sister telling us? If you ain't ready to see them with nobody else, you better stay your ass home. [00:33:37] Speaker B: Hey, brother, tell me that all the time. You going to be able to see them with somebody else and you be all right. If you going to be all right, then go ahead, go for it. [00:33:46] Speaker A: Yeah, you better work on it. Yeah, go for it. [00:33:48] Speaker B: If you not a. Yeah. [00:33:53] Speaker A: Hold on. Let's see here. We got comments, we got comments. Stick around you. [00:33:58] Speaker B: Yeah, all right. You don't have to stick around if you don't want to. Leaving is an option. [00:34:03] Speaker C: Thank you whoever said that. [00:34:05] Speaker B: True enough. [00:34:05] Speaker C: Thank you whoever said that online, thank you. [00:34:08] Speaker B: You do not have to deal with anything you don't want to deal with. [00:34:11] Speaker C: Thank you. I choose peace. [00:34:13] Speaker B: But they are also consequences. [00:34:14] Speaker C: It definitely is. And I'm willing to take those consequences behind it. [00:34:18] Speaker B: As long as you can deal with. [00:34:19] Speaker C: Your consequences, you can deal with every consequence. [00:34:20] Speaker B: Go for it. [00:34:21] Speaker C: Whatever actions that Ariana. I'm not going to say my gr. Whatever consequences Ari decide, I'm willing to take the consequences behind it. Cuz I already know what I'm putting myself into. But I will always choose my piece before anything, anybody. My peace is my peace. If I feel like I'm not getting what I need, not saying what I need in a relationship, but if I feel like I don't be understanding as a so called man should be, as a man, a man should understand they women listen. [00:34:48] Speaker A: That's cool. Just like y' all want, y' all gotta understand this. [00:34:50] Speaker C: Y' all gotta understand us as well. We got feelings just like y' all got feelings. [00:34:53] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, okay. Boom. Understand this. You got every right to make your decision. And I love tell people always understand this. Right? Whatever you think, whatever you believe, you right? Right. You absolutely correct in that. That's Your belief, that's for you. You are correct. You are right. You do what you believe is in your best interest. And I love that. Because what that allows me to do is be to evaluate if your actions and your way of belief is in my best interest. [00:35:19] Speaker C: Right. [00:35:19] Speaker A: So now I can properly put the situation where I need to put it so I can respond to it and I can live within my peace and my growth productively. Right now. I know, okay, not to take you serious. Next time you come around, talk about being with me. Cause you just go up and leave and put it off, whatever may be the case. And that's cool. And that's cool. Guess what? And I'm not going to hold up now. And I'm not going to go there. And at the same time, like, you got your standards, I got my standards. If we can't have no understanding, then that's cool. Well, if you feel like you need to leave, that's cool. You got every option to leave. Just like I got the same option not to accept you back. I got the same option not to now acknowledge you with any value. Because now you showing me what I believe to be, that I'm not worth you staying. I'm not worth you showing no understanding. I'm not worth you applying yourself. And I'm. I'm talking about. And I'm not worth you believing in enough to say, hold up, I can wait tomorrow and have this conversation. I don't got to pick my bags up and leave. I'm willing to deal whatever the damages and the consequences are if I walk out this door. Because he don't mean that. He don't mean nothing to me no more. He's not worth that to me. So that's how I'm gonna see it when you choose to pack your stuff and walk out that door. I wasn't worked. That's exactly. You showed me exactly what my worth is and what my value is to you. That's how I'm gonna. I'm gonna apply a measure to the situation. And no, you ain't gonna be able to come back to me and try to talk to me in the do, do, do. Because you made a choice, right? [00:36:47] Speaker C: He made his choice. [00:36:47] Speaker A: He damaged my confidence. [00:36:49] Speaker C: He left me, then that's when I packed my stuff. He left me, then I packed my stuff. [00:36:52] Speaker A: But. But you damaged my confidence in you, especially if you left and I didn't leave, regardless of what the argument or the understanding. [00:37:00] Speaker B: So you say he left first? [00:37:01] Speaker C: Yeah, he left first. [00:37:02] Speaker A: Oh, he packed his stuff and Left? [00:37:03] Speaker C: Yeah. No, he didn't pack his stuff. I stayed with him, so he left. He did what? He did. He left. He got in his car and left. And then I packed my stuff and I left. [00:37:11] Speaker A: What do you mean he left? I mean, did he move out or did you move out? [00:37:14] Speaker C: I moved out, yeah. [00:37:15] Speaker A: And why'd you move out? He told you to leave? [00:37:17] Speaker C: No, he didn't tell me to leave. [00:37:19] Speaker A: Did he just. [00:37:20] Speaker C: He left. [00:37:20] Speaker A: Did he just left the airport? [00:37:21] Speaker C: He didn't want to have the conversation, so he decided to get in his car. Didn't communicate nothing to me where he was going. We could have had that conversation before he left. He didn't want it, so he left. So since you already decided to leave, I'mma decide to leave too. [00:37:36] Speaker A: Okay, so basically what you're saying is y' all had a tiff, right? And instead of him talking about it, communicating about it, he just like, to hell with it. Yeah. Walked out the house, got in his car and he left? [00:37:47] Speaker C: Yes. [00:37:49] Speaker B: How long did he leave? [00:37:51] Speaker C: I don't know, cuz I done before he even got back to the house. I. I was already gone. [00:37:55] Speaker B: But he did come back that night? [00:37:57] Speaker C: I don't know. He turned off his location, so I don't know if he came back home or not. I don't know. I have no clue. [00:38:04] Speaker B: I mean, maybe he could have left to calm down, you know what I'm saying? To process his emotions. You see what I'm saying? [00:38:08] Speaker C: But he could have processed. We've been processing. [00:38:10] Speaker A: Us are left too. I ain't going to say that. Let me. Shut up. I'm just going to leave. [00:38:14] Speaker C: Exactly. [00:38:14] Speaker B: Yeah. I can't exactly. [00:38:16] Speaker A: She shut the conversation down, walked out the house and turn the location off. Oh, man. [00:38:20] Speaker C: Hell yeah. So it's like, what y'. [00:38:22] Speaker A: All. [00:38:22] Speaker C: What y' all expect for me to do? Just be that little good girl and wait till you come home? [00:38:26] Speaker A: I'm having stuff outside the porch I ain't never talking about. Like this should be sitting right outside. Yeah, that's a rap. You a handle me like that. You a handle me like that. That's. Yeah, that's some. You ain't gonna handle me like that. You ain't gonna do it like that. I see what you're saying. So he basically shows you what you was worth. [00:38:42] Speaker C: Yes, he already showed me. Because we. Like I said, we're better than that. He already. [00:38:47] Speaker A: You made light of it earlier. Now you did kind of make light of it. You said y' all just got a little argument. [00:38:52] Speaker C: Whatever it was an argument. It was like a miscommunication. It was definitely a miscommunication. [00:38:56] Speaker A: It was a lot. Because he chose to leave and shut down and turn his location on. [00:39:00] Speaker C: Yeah. That's one. That's why I said to me it's. [00:39:02] Speaker A: Not the argument for. For me, it would have been the leaving and then the turn the location off. That's spiteful. That's why they want to go. If we share locations and you leave and you turn the location out, you're being spiteful or sneaky one of the two. So like either neither one of them is going to. Is going to fly with me. Like, no, I'm cool. I'm cool on that. Yeah, I'm cool on that. Cuz I ain't. Cuz I'm better yet cuz I want to share my location with you. I'm. I ain't going to share my location with you in the first place. [00:39:31] Speaker C: Exactly. [00:39:32] Speaker A: So. But if I am going to share it with you. You got it. [00:39:35] Speaker B: Okay, now we going to go to the comments. I see somebody saying something good in the comments. [00:39:39] Speaker A: Okay. Okay. Let me see. [00:39:40] Speaker B: Okay, where we start at Denisha, she said sometimes you got to allow people to calm down and gather their thoughts. True enough. True enough. True enough. [00:39:49] Speaker C: That's true. [00:39:50] Speaker B: That's exactly what I said. [00:39:51] Speaker C: That's true. [00:39:51] Speaker B: True enough. [00:39:53] Speaker C: They turning that location out there. [00:39:54] Speaker B: Boogie side say communication is the key. [00:39:57] Speaker C: Thank you. [00:39:57] Speaker B: In a relationship. You know what I'm saying? Definitely, you know, communication, that is. [00:40:02] Speaker A: But you got to have that respect to communicate. Like respect is the b basis of communication. You don't got no respect to shut up. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. [00:40:09] Speaker B: Aaron, say it's okay to leave and then come back when cooler heads thank you. And have a discussion. [00:40:16] Speaker C: That's good. [00:40:17] Speaker B: See what I'm saying? [00:40:20] Speaker A: Turning location off. What's the key to that? Now for me, it was not the leaving and not setting up. Like just up, boom. And just leaving your emotions. [00:40:30] Speaker B: But. But it probably was a hey, listen, it probably was a no, you can't. [00:40:34] Speaker C: You try to come. [00:40:35] Speaker B: No, no, no, no. It's just me being honest. It probably could have been like, you know what? You ticked me off and you hurt my feelings, so I'm about to hurt your. Guess I'm about to tick you off. If I know if I turn my location off and you got my location, first thing you going to think to do when I walk out that door is do what? Grab your phone and check my location. So I'm going to turn it off. And now you see, now your chest. [00:40:52] Speaker C: Hurt the same way you. [00:40:54] Speaker B: But I'm making you feel. [00:40:56] Speaker A: And that's. [00:40:56] Speaker B: That's toxic. Cuz I'm trying to make you feel some type of way because that means that's toxic. You made me feel some type of way. You see what I'm saying? [00:41:02] Speaker C: On your end. That's toxic on your end, not mine. Toxic on yours. [00:41:06] Speaker D: Yes. [00:41:07] Speaker C: Let's be. If you want to be honest, that's toxic on your end. That's definitely not toxic on mine. [00:41:12] Speaker A: You wrong for that. [00:41:13] Speaker C: That's. [00:41:13] Speaker A: You're wrong. [00:41:14] Speaker C: So you. You hurt people. You hurt people. [00:41:16] Speaker B: What if you jump anyway? [00:41:18] Speaker C: You hurt. You already hurt, so you hurting people. That's not right. And that's supposed to be your significant other. So you mad. So you hurt your significant other. Just cuz you're hurt. That's not right. That's toxic. [00:41:30] Speaker B: Very toxic. [00:41:31] Speaker A: Unless. [00:41:32] Speaker B: Unless they went to calm down. You feel. We was willing to calm down. We came not to calm down. You know what I'm saying? And it probably was a little pettiness in that and not necessarily toxic. It probably was some pettiness in it. [00:41:43] Speaker C: Like he definitely was. [00:41:44] Speaker B: Yeah, I'm about to do this, but he could have, man, listen, man. Yeah, let me shut up. Yeah, hey, listen. Yeah, we all guilty. You know what I'm saying? I am in my day. I followed and did that. He go to my dog house and sit in the house. I'm about to turn my phone off. [00:42:00] Speaker C: And I'm not saying he turn off his location to go. [00:42:02] Speaker A: Hey, my man in the comments said you lying. That man ain't turn his location off. He most definitely did. [00:42:07] Speaker C: Like, he must definitely, definitely did. [00:42:09] Speaker B: Like, she want us on her side. [00:42:11] Speaker C: He most definitely did. Like, I don't have to. [00:42:16] Speaker A: Somebody else told me he didn't turn that on his door. Who said that? [00:42:18] Speaker C: You just. [00:42:19] Speaker A: You just want everybody on your side. [00:42:21] Speaker C: I don't want nobody on my side. [00:42:23] Speaker A: Like, the truth is, you see a. [00:42:25] Speaker B: Little bit of the story come out a little more every time you ask. [00:42:29] Speaker C: Hey, a little bit more of that story come out. [00:42:31] Speaker B: See, we was clueless. Now we getting content is CL lose. And now it's like, yeah, hey, listen, something in that water ain't clean. [00:42:38] Speaker C: No, y' all just asked a question and I told y' all what I did. I packed my stuff and I left. [00:42:45] Speaker A: Yeah. And I like this comment. [00:42:48] Speaker B: And toss it. [00:42:49] Speaker A: She's good. Gone. [00:42:50] Speaker C: Oh, my gosh. [00:42:52] Speaker A: Yeah, like, that's true, man. Like, it takes, man, it takes a lot leaving Leaving it causes damage. You got to realize in a relationship, the epiphany is to keep it perfect from day one. That's true. You strive for that. But then when you make mistakes, you strive to learn from them and grow through them to become a better couple. That's the element. You don't do spiteful stuff to cause each other pain or discomfort because what you're doing now is you're damaging the confidence that your partner has in you. I mean, if, if we, if. If we play basketball together and I get. I pass you the ball. Pass you the ball. Every. I'm talking about. And every time I pass you the ball, you take a shot and miss. Every time I pass you the ball, you take. God damn this. He tried to pass it back, mother. He ain't even try to pass nobody. But I know every time I pass in the ball, he going to take a shot and miss. He ain't hit, not one shot. Guess what I'm start doing? I ain't going to stop passing the ball. [00:43:52] Speaker B: You ain't no team player. [00:43:53] Speaker A: I'm gonna stop passing on the ball because that's what he showed me. So in a relationship, same thing. It's what you show your partner. And if you show your partner negative stuff and you damaging their confidence in you, they're not gonna pass you the ball. I'm talking about. So you, you gotta be. I mean, you just gotta be. You gotta be real. You gotta be real mindful of that man. And so when you make those negative decisions to play victim or to cause trauma or to cause damage, that's what you're gonna get. You're gonna get damaged. I love. What's the other one I use about the pebble of the little pebble? All right, listen. Little story I'm telling you. It's like this, right? You got. The world has dried up. It's a apocalypse. And we got a five gallon bucket of water. You know what I mean? We take. We survive water, right? Gigi come around, I'm talking about, and the mess around and drop a pebble of. In the damn water. Just. It's just a pedal. Just a little, little rock. Just a little rock, a little rock. She take her hand and scoop it. He scoop it right back out. Boom. She take that fire guy in the water, she run it through a filter. She ball it, she icing and put it back in. In the jug. You gonna drink that water now. Now you ain't gonna drink that water. And that's what you do when you walk. Your motherfucking ass out that goddamn house. You know what I'm saying? That's what you do when you walk your ass out that house or you do little damaging toxic victim type behavior. At the end of the day, that's what you do. You damaging the confidence of your partner. So you want to be mindful of that. You want to prevent ever causing damage. You want to drop. You want to prevent from ever dropping that pebble of shit in that motherfucking jug of water. You want to, you want to not do that because you know ain't no coming back from that. You can filter it out, you can ball it, you can redo it, you can do all the little stuff you want to, but you ain't going to change ever dropping that ball of shit in that, in that water. And they ain't gonna never forget seeing it. And when you want you talk. When y' all gonna check out that water, you're gonna think about that little pebble of. So you want to be buying. Well, man, you want, you want to be real, real, real mindful about what you do, right? When you in, you're in a relationship or you care about somebody, you ain't even got to be in a relationship with them. If it matter to you, it matter to you. Man, don't do nothing that's damaging. You know what I'm saying? Don't do nothing that even might be suspicious or suspect, right? You want to be right in the Zach, you know, you. I mean, my homeboy used to say, man, do. Do better by me than I do by you. I mean, show me, show me how. Show me how it's done if I'm up right? You know, like. [00:46:46] Speaker C: But it's like I done showed you, like, say if, like your female done showed you plenty times, like what you do wrong and you constantly actually keep doing the same thing that she say you doing wrong. [00:46:58] Speaker A: Like, why sometimes you gotta wise up. [00:47:00] Speaker C: That's what I'm saying. Like, it's a wise up situation. [00:47:10] Speaker A: Well, they're going off and they're going off. [00:47:11] Speaker C: Oh my gosh, my voice is so loud on there. [00:47:15] Speaker A: They going off in the comments, right? I mean, but you should never leave. I just. Person feel like you should never leave. That's just damage a lot of people for me once I feel like you willing to leave me. I ain't. I'm talking about. Boy, that's. Man, that, that's gonna kind of shut my engine down, man. I ain't really be motivated to be buying no flowers and planning no trips and Doing nothing romantic or extra. Yeah. I mean, you gonna take the fire up out of me. Like, hey, I'm talking about from that point on, bro. It really. I'm really just on some. Man, we ain't even got. We ain't got to make. Look, we just. [00:47:48] Speaker B: Yeah, it's time to move on. [00:47:49] Speaker A: After that, go real fast, man. I go ahead and go about my business. Yeah. [00:47:53] Speaker B: I ain't even want that. Ain't no doing nothing. [00:47:55] Speaker A: I just would. [00:47:56] Speaker B: Yeah. Just go ahead and stay going, and I'm. I'm going make it. [00:47:59] Speaker A: I'll take it if it's convenient, you know what I mean? Got no complications. I don't want the complications. No complications, man. But, yeah, I mean, like, it's. It's just damaging, man. Like, from a male perspective, man. I mean, you want the fair. I'm talking about just like y' all want the fairy tale. If you want the fairy tale, too, baby, you want that solid, bro. I want that female. I know, man. I don't got to be worried about. I don't gotta worry. I got no worries. Complete confidence. I know what she'll do. I can predict it. Now. You can't tell me. I know. And they say she unheard of, boy. They said, boy, Jesus didn't. They said, Jesus ain't made her because even Adam didn't know what Eve was about to do, and she did it. You know what I mean? So you think she exists? You think she is this one, whatever, that perfect, that solid one? Yeah. [00:48:58] Speaker B: There's a lot of good people left in the world, man. I think, like, listen, but being realistic, I ain't gonna say everybody. Everybody ain't got no, like, what's the word I'm looking for? Everybody don't have a. A disingenuous spirit, though, man. Like, everybody ain't like that. Like, you know, it's really real life, genuine people with no ulterior motives. Like, some people really. And a lot of women still believe in fairy tales. Like, they still believe in love. Like, even. Even the ones that got done wrong, some of them still. Still, like, solid. They wasn't always the problem, you know what I'm saying? Like, now, some of y'. [00:49:36] Speaker A: All. [00:49:37] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. Oh, I know y' all need to be with dogs, and y' all deserve to be walked like dogs. For real. For real. Some of y'. [00:49:43] Speaker A: All. [00:49:44] Speaker B: You know what I'm saying? [00:49:45] Speaker C: Just like y', all, man. [00:49:46] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. Hey, y'. [00:49:47] Speaker C: All. [00:49:47] Speaker B: Rightfully so, you know, and some. Hey, guess what? And some men, during some points in Times they need to be walked like dogs, too. [00:49:54] Speaker C: Most definitely someone got it. [00:49:56] Speaker B: And for those who got it in their chest hurt. Hey, it was a long time coming, you know what I'm saying? But, yeah, like, you know what I'm saying? It's really like real life. Some genuine people left in this world, dog. Like. [00:50:10] Speaker A: And I. [00:50:12] Speaker B: Somewhere inside of me, I still believe it. You know what I'm saying? Like, they turn that down. Something, bro. [00:50:18] Speaker A: Okay, man, Boogie keep talking about I'm toxic, Boogie. I ain't toxic, man. [00:50:23] Speaker B: He is toxic, Boogie. And I tell him all the time, not toxic for the people who believe that. Nobody don't tell him when he wrong. He don't never do wrong. And everybody always, hey, listen, he gonna tell you, if you want somebody to agree with you, don't call me, cuz. [00:50:37] Speaker A: I hate that. [00:50:38] Speaker B: Hate is now, not him. I'm not gonna be like, yeah, bro, I'mma listen. I'm be like, yeah, hey, yeah, I understand. Hey, you was wrong, though. And that going to be the end of the conversation. Hey, but, bro, listen, that's the end of it. [00:50:50] Speaker A: Ain't no but I can't talk to Willie. Cause I'm always on. [00:50:53] Speaker B: Yeah, really. [00:50:53] Speaker A: Always taking up for everybody else. [00:50:56] Speaker C: No, it's not taking up for everybody. [00:50:58] Speaker A: Wrong is wrong, bro. Bro, no, bro, hey, yeah, I'm gonna tell you wrong. I'm like, man, I had to convince him. Like a judge and jury. I delay everything out there. All my evidence, everything gotta be in line. Everything gotta he like, bro, no, you know, bro, now, you know you wrong, though. [00:51:19] Speaker C: Tox, did you see what Boogie say? [00:51:20] Speaker A: What did he say? What Boogie? I'll say something else. I don't want to read Boogie. Toxic. That who Toxic. You know, talking about toxic. Tell him what your nickname is. [00:51:30] Speaker C: Oh, Dee Dee said you toxic, too. Yeah, he love you, though. [00:51:33] Speaker B: Oh, bro, is the Toxic King. Yeah. [00:51:38] Speaker A: Nah, Boogie, tell him what your nickname is. Tell them what nickname I gave you, man. But listen, I want to thank y'. All. We'll be back next Thursday, man. Shoot me stuff, man. Let me know what y' all want to talk about. And let me know if it's somebody that y' all want to see on the show, man. Me and Willie, man, I'm talking about. We're willing to bring them over on and talk with them. [00:51:57] Speaker B: Yeah, as long as it ain't messy. As long as it ain't toxic. [00:52:01] Speaker A: But the more toxic messy it is, the better it is. Anyone say that's what that's the most better it is. Let's make it super toxic. Let's talk about it. [00:52:09] Speaker B: Hey, nah. [00:52:10] Speaker A: But for real. [00:52:10] Speaker B: The universe gonna deal with it accordingly. [00:52:16] Speaker A: Peace, love, respect. We out. [00:52:19] Speaker B: Peace.